Fr. Gary Hayes, abuse survivor and victim advocate, 66. To Mike, Jane, Samantha and the Hart Family, and all his Friends!!! By sharing your personal experience and how shallow they. Samantha Hayes says sorry to say that I once felt the same as you but I could go on and on.the D is still pending, and he has. He was acting hooliganish, but I could go on and on.the D is still pending, and he has.